Eliminate use of BUILT_SOURCES from Gnulib.

Eliminate use of BUILT_SOURCES from Gnulib.

As with recursive make, BUILT_SOURCES is harmful because of inadequate
dependency information.  We can achieve a similar effect with by using
order-only dependencies:  These force the headers to be up-to-date
before anything that might require them is built: but rebuilds are only
triggered based on the accurate dependency information generated by the
normal mechanisms.

Unfortunately, order-only dependencies are a GNU make feature, so we use
a hack which should fall back to ordinary dependencies on other make
implementations.  The worst effect of using ordinary dependencies will
be that files might be needlessly rebuilt when a header changes.